By Katherine
Who wrestles a newborn baby into pink tights? Apparently, someone does, as I ran across several unopened pairs of them while sorting through my first daughter’s old baby clothes in preparation for Baby Two’s arrival. I also found a bunch of newborn dresses and sets of matching hats and booties that still had tags.
These forgotten gifts were adorable to look at, but, sadly, unused.
Other parents must find reasons for newborns to wear tights and dresses, but rarely have I found myself going anywhere with a newborn that requires brushing my own teeth or dressing the little one in anything resembling an “outfit.”
In my case, my first daughter spent her first few months being swaddled to within an inch of her life lest she disturb herself into a frenzy, and Baby Two proved equally as uninterested in flailing her limbs about in the wide world or having any sense of fashion.
Aside from a few new pieces, Baby Two has spent her first five months in softly worn hand-me-down pajamas from Big Sister (she spits up on them regularly to mark her own territory).
And until about a week ago, her only accessories were: (1) the warm blankets that bound her arms and legs burrito-style pretty much since the day she arrived, (2) a knit hat, and (3) me, the zombie mom she required to be attached to her at all times for easy feeding and rocking.
Now she occasionally wears pants.
There was one dress-up episode for Baby—an unsuccessful attempt at a family photo in a truly adorable pink- and black-striped flapper dress that a fashionable (and good humored) relative sent and, incredulously, pink tights, but Baby barfed all over that ensemble before the flash went off, so there you go.
The truth is, babies don’t need many things and second children need even less.
And this time, I really wanted to keep things as simple and green as possible. I’m pretty sure there already are enough copies of Good Night Moon out there to wrap around the planet a couple times, so why buy new?
Before Baby Two arrived, I gave the “we really don’t need anything” speech to any family who asked and shopped used for anything I didn’t already have. (I happen to have three copies of Good Night Moon, incidentally).
Not that I didn’t indulge in a few new items or relish some wonderful and useful new baby gifts. Among them: a beautiful handmade quilt from our very own Lisa; a set of handmade bibs from another talented friend; cute (and unstained!) new onesies and baby wear with morale-boosting sayings like “My mom is hotter than your mom,” lovely organic cotton and muslin swaddle blankets from Swaddle Designs and aden + anais, respectively, a Mally washable, leather bib with a food-catch pocket from Petit Bebe, bamboo baby bowls and spoons from Blue Ridge Eco Shop and a professional photo shoot and baby book from my good friend Kerry at Earthdarling Portraits. (That's an Earthdarling Portrait of Baby Two above).
Plus Lisa has a great list of gift ideas for a babies and kids here.
In addition to that, I’m thrilled to have discovered these new resources for making life with a new baby a little brighter, a little simpler and a little greener this time around.
CareCalendar
Some friends used an online tool to organize delivering hot meals to our family during those bleary-eyed early months. They also used it to arrange play dates for Big Sister and post-partum blues busting visits for me. Fresh pasta from Mona Lisa delivered with warm hugs and encouraging words from a fellow mom so beats brand new booties.
Relay Foods
I can count on one hand the numbers of times I’ve trekked to the grocery store with both rambunctious preschooler and colicky baby in tow. Actually, I don’t even need hands. I’ve NEVER done this, because I would rather die.
Instead I requested Relay Foods gift certificates in lieu of baby gifts from my family, and now I grocery shop online in the privacy of my own home, no teeth brushing required.
I can get organic meat, local eggs and produce, favorite items from the local health food retailers, and my husband’s beloved Listerine and Cheerios all delivered to our doorstep, in a more efficient fashion than if we schlepped to a bunch of different places ourselves.
Relay Foods maintains a list of my favorite things for reference and placing my order online helps me organize my weekly needs, stick to the list and avoid guzzling a bunch of gas running back to the store several times a week because I’ve forgotten the peanut butter or toothpaste.
Cloth wipes
I really wanted to avoid using disposable wipes this time around, opting instead for the spray bottle and reusable cloth route. I had plenty of cloth rags lying around, but the thought of wiping my perfect new baby in a square of Husband’s old fraternity shirts just felt creepy, so I splurged on these little cotton wipes at Rebecca’s Natural Food. They came in packages of four (I bought four sets) for under $5 a package.
Melissa’s Majick Baby Balm
I also head to Rebecca’s for refills of this natural balm made from organic olive and grapeseed oils, flowers, shea nut butter and beeswax from Sweet Melissa’s Herbals. Nothing has worked better for treating and preventing diaper rash. (Special thanks to The Stork for turning me onto this local gem.)
Sugar Snap Kids Consignment
Did I mention the plethora of Good Night Moons out there? Add to that all the swings, bouncy seats, carriers and slings, diaper bags, and high chairs that are used for such a short period of time that no one really needs to buy these items new.
Sugar Snap usually gets its hands on a variety of these items as well as bedding, clothes and other sundries for babies, toddlers, preschoolers and pregnant ladies.
And with all the money saved shopping for recycled stuff and relying on hand-me-downs, I’m planning to indulge instead on some fun experiences with Baby, like maybe a baby-and-me yoga class at Bend!
Bend Yoga
I haven’t actually been yet, and we’ve written about this new yoga studio for kids, teens and pregnant women before, so I won’t say much more other than this: What could be sweeter than “child’s pose” with child?
Anyone else have favorite resources for enjoying life with baby without all the fuss and environmental muss?
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